Stepfathers play an important role in blended families. Though the relationship can sometimes be complicated, stepfathers deserve appreciation and love. Here are some thoughtful ways to celebrate your stepdad and show him he’s valued.
Make Him Feel Special on Father’s Day
Father’s Day is the perfect opportunity to make your stepdad feel extra special. Even though he didn’t raise you from birth, he’s taken on the role of father figure in your life. Let him know you’re grateful on his special day. Give him a fun Father’s Day card that acknowledges his role as stepfather. Add a heartfelt message explaining why you appreciate him. Treat him to breakfast in bed or make reservations at his favourite restaurant. Get him a Father’s Day gift box full of his favourite drinks and snacks. You can even get a Father’s Day gift box delivered if you do not live together. The most meaningful gift you can give is your time, attention, and gratitude.
Spend Quality Time Together
Stepparents often have to work hard to form bonds with stepchildren. Show your stepdad that you value your relationship by spending meaningful time together. Initiate a weekly family game night or cook dinner as a family once a week. Go fishing, play sports, or take up a new hobby together. Attend a concert, sporting event, or show you both enjoy. Long road trips and holidays allow plenty of bonding time. Even simple activities like taking a walk or watching a movie allow you to connect.
Include Him in Family Traditions
Blending a family can be tricky when each person has their own traditions. Make your stepdad feel like part of the family by including him in special traditions. Ask him to join in for birthdays, holidays, and cultural celebrations. Be open to creating new traditions that incorporate interests on both sides. Respectfully explain the origins and meanings behind your family customs. It may take time, but blending traditions can unite your blended family.
Express Your Appreciation
Tell your stepdad what he means to you. Let him know how much you appreciate the love, support, time, and care he contributes to your family. Stepparents often feel insecure about their roles, so verbal reassurance makes a big impact. Say thank you for the everyday things he provides – rides, meals, advice, attending your events, household duties, financial contributions, and more. Show gratitude on birthdays, anniversaries, and just because.
Seek His Wisdom
Part of what makes fathers so special are the nuggets of wisdom they impart. Seek out your stepfather’s advice and perspective. Ask his opinion on topics you’re learning about in school, issues in your community, ethical dilemmas, career questions, and relationship problems. Even if your views differ, you’ll gain insight into how he sees the world. Show him you respect the knowledge he has gained from life experience.
Defend the Relationship
Sometimes extended family may not fully embrace a new stepfather. Make it clear to your relatives that he plays an important role in your family now. Correct them if they fail to include him in “family” events. Stand up for him if relatives are disrespectful. Treat him with the same love and respect you would a biological father. Accepting and validating the stepparent-stepchild bond helps strengthen your relationship.
Remember, stepfathers deserve as much love and appreciation as biological dads. With effort and understanding from both sides, you can build a strong bond.
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